Last Night…. 15th of October 2008.
As our 2-day workshop ended for the quality customer service our trainer treated us out for a gimmick. Since it’s their pay-day he treated us in the Gusteaus bar in Libis Q.C. We enjoyed drinking, videoke singing, dancing and chatting. I together with my other co-trainees (there are 6 of them, and they’ll be my new officemate’s to be after we finished the training) also shared for that night’s additional monetary fund.
The surprising thing was that I find it easier nowadays to get along with others. And to be honest, that’s not the Jo-Fhrey M. Parcarey before. I was snobbish & aloof way back then. That’s why most often I find it hard to befriend others. I choose who will be my friend and who’s not. That’s me way back then, I believe that the friends that I have is enough. And that’s one of the things that I became afraid of before resigning t my previous job. I became afraid that I’ll find it hard to make new friends and to deal with other people. I’m afraid that others won’t accept me as their friend. But during the three days that I’ve been attending our training I find it easy to befriend others. And here’s my secret, a night before the first day of our workshop/training I read again Dale Carnegie’s book about human relations entitled “How to Win Friends and Influence People”. I first read it when I was in first year college, simply because by then I was also afraid that I wouldn’t have a friend. And even though by that time I just gained few friends I can say that still the book was effective. Thus, I read it again after so many years. But by this time I just scanned the book and reviewed all the necessary details that it contains that could be very helpful.
Let me share you the six ways to make people like you, coming from the book:
RULE 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.
RULE 2: SMILE =)
RULE 3: Remember that a man’s name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
RULE 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
RULE 5: Talk in terms of the other man’s interest.
RULE 6: Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.
That’s what makes my relations with others easier. And I feel glad that although it was just three days that we’ve known each other my relation with my new colleagues is becoming good. And in the long run I’ll have all of them as my friend. But just to clarify, I’m not expecting that I’ll be having all of my colleagues as my closest friend. That’s not usually happening because I can’t please everyone. But it feels great befriending with others and if you noticed that they don’t like you just go on with life don’t mind them. It’s not your lost actually it their lost.
Tonight… 16th of October 2008.
We’ll be moving on the next training and it’s about product knowledge. The exciting thing about that training is that it will be done at night. So I’m now preparing for the graveyard schedule. What do I expect tonight? Of course to gain more knowledge so that I can be prepared by the following week as I started working. Second to that is to build good relationship with my batch mates. There are sixteen of us in the 23rd batch of trainees and I’m hoping to build good working relationship with them. And I can surely do that by just simply following the six rules.
I can say that people doesn’t just have to work and work to gain more profit. There’s more beyond that and it’s to gain more experiences and new friends. So try it out guys whether you’re still studying or now working try to explore a new world, experience new things and to simply enjoy life! Start making new friends now.
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Thursday, October 16, 2008
Monday, October 13, 2008
coming back and becoming...
this is my first posted article in this site..and as i come back in writing and posting articles again in the other site i've decided to also start posting in here..thus,i'm becoming an official blogger/writer for this site.
Here's my first article:
SEPTEMBER: Realizing and deciding….
Early morning of the last working day of August I found myself in front of my computer typing a resignation letter. Maybe it’s because after three day of realizing things I ended up with my final decision and that is for me to resign. I thought that resigning is much easier than applying but I am wrong. Because with application it will be easier for you will be assessed and will be judged if you’re qualified while on resignation it’s only you who will decide if it’s the right thing to do. And I can say that resigning or leaving is one of the hardest things that a person has to face. For with that action, it will lead you to the feeling of sadness knowing that you’ll have to leave the place that you’ve been staying with for a couple of years and also you’ll be leaving the people that become a part of your life.
And the month of September had become really hard for me. For this will be the best time for my final decision making whether I’ll stand firm with my decision or go back to the company that I’ve been serving with for more than two years. But after a series of realization due to enough relaxation (I’ve been staying at home you know and I become relaxed) I ended up with my decision and that is to…really put an end with my former working life and to start a new beginning.
OCTOBER: Coming back and becoming….
Today I went back to my former office where I’ve spent more than two years of my life working and enjoying life. It has been several weeks that I didn’t go there after my resignation last August 30th. And today as I come back, I’ve seen maybe for the last time our work stations, the memorable lobby of the building and the many faces of my former officemates who became a part of my life. It feels good seeing them again, my officemates or should I say my friends! Seeing all of them smiling at me gives an unexplainable feeling deep inside of me, maybe it’s because these people became a part of my more than two year work-life story. I’ll admit I missed them and that’s one of the factors of my unexplainable emotion. Upon coming back I realized a lot of things, I realized that my former co-workers were not just a simple former officemates but their also my friend that I will cherish forever. And I admit that I will be missing them, all of the fun and laughter that I shared with them. I also realized that even though today as I come back it doesn’t mean that I went back to stay I can say that just seeing my former officemates smiling at me it could be a good reason for me to really come back and stay. But sad to say I wouldn’t and I couldn’t. Anyway, I just dropped by to my former office to get my certificate of employment because today is also my day of becoming…
Becoming a new person to a new world is what I will be starting today. Because today I’m officially a new employee to the new company that I have applied with. I attended the orientation in the morning and signed my contract during the afternoon. And I can say that I’m now becoming renewed as a person. Having a new workplace, a new company to work for and a new set of friends to make or discover I can say that I’m starting all over again. And this day will be a new beginning for me. A great start for me to be renewed. That’s maybe the reason why my former officemates noticed my refreshing aura as I went to our former office to get My COE. What they didn’t know is that I had a good rest last weekend because of felling unwell. And becoming sick for a couple of days is a miraculous story for me. Because of what happened to me (being sick, having an irritated right eye, and sore throat) I got worried that I could not make it today for the orientation and contract signing. But GOD is good because of Him with the help of prescribed medicines and medications (warm compressing of my irritated eye) I make it today in attending my very first day at my new work and with that I’m very thankful (from day one of my application up to the completion of my requirements was also a miraculous stories for me which I’m also thankful with). For I know that although I’m not a good servant of Him everything will be possible if we’ll just sincerely ask for a certain thing that we want. An in my case the feeling of wellness was all that I am asking for. And that was granted today, as I woke up today I didn’t just feel well but I also feel the excitement inside of me (my right eye went back to the normal appearance). For today will be a great day for me becoming a new employee.
And I had my day coming back to where I was before and in becoming a newbie to a new world that I’ll be staying with starting today.
To see my previous blog check this sites:
http://jofhrey.multiply.com
or my friendster blogs with user acct.: jofparx28@yahoo.com
Here's my first article:
SEPTEMBER: Realizing and deciding….
Early morning of the last working day of August I found myself in front of my computer typing a resignation letter. Maybe it’s because after three day of realizing things I ended up with my final decision and that is for me to resign. I thought that resigning is much easier than applying but I am wrong. Because with application it will be easier for you will be assessed and will be judged if you’re qualified while on resignation it’s only you who will decide if it’s the right thing to do. And I can say that resigning or leaving is one of the hardest things that a person has to face. For with that action, it will lead you to the feeling of sadness knowing that you’ll have to leave the place that you’ve been staying with for a couple of years and also you’ll be leaving the people that become a part of your life.
And the month of September had become really hard for me. For this will be the best time for my final decision making whether I’ll stand firm with my decision or go back to the company that I’ve been serving with for more than two years. But after a series of realization due to enough relaxation (I’ve been staying at home you know and I become relaxed) I ended up with my decision and that is to…really put an end with my former working life and to start a new beginning.
OCTOBER: Coming back and becoming….
Today I went back to my former office where I’ve spent more than two years of my life working and enjoying life. It has been several weeks that I didn’t go there after my resignation last August 30th. And today as I come back, I’ve seen maybe for the last time our work stations, the memorable lobby of the building and the many faces of my former officemates who became a part of my life. It feels good seeing them again, my officemates or should I say my friends! Seeing all of them smiling at me gives an unexplainable feeling deep inside of me, maybe it’s because these people became a part of my more than two year work-life story. I’ll admit I missed them and that’s one of the factors of my unexplainable emotion. Upon coming back I realized a lot of things, I realized that my former co-workers were not just a simple former officemates but their also my friend that I will cherish forever. And I admit that I will be missing them, all of the fun and laughter that I shared with them. I also realized that even though today as I come back it doesn’t mean that I went back to stay I can say that just seeing my former officemates smiling at me it could be a good reason for me to really come back and stay. But sad to say I wouldn’t and I couldn’t. Anyway, I just dropped by to my former office to get my certificate of employment because today is also my day of becoming…
Becoming a new person to a new world is what I will be starting today. Because today I’m officially a new employee to the new company that I have applied with. I attended the orientation in the morning and signed my contract during the afternoon. And I can say that I’m now becoming renewed as a person. Having a new workplace, a new company to work for and a new set of friends to make or discover I can say that I’m starting all over again. And this day will be a new beginning for me. A great start for me to be renewed. That’s maybe the reason why my former officemates noticed my refreshing aura as I went to our former office to get My COE. What they didn’t know is that I had a good rest last weekend because of felling unwell. And becoming sick for a couple of days is a miraculous story for me. Because of what happened to me (being sick, having an irritated right eye, and sore throat) I got worried that I could not make it today for the orientation and contract signing. But GOD is good because of Him with the help of prescribed medicines and medications (warm compressing of my irritated eye) I make it today in attending my very first day at my new work and with that I’m very thankful (from day one of my application up to the completion of my requirements was also a miraculous stories for me which I’m also thankful with). For I know that although I’m not a good servant of Him everything will be possible if we’ll just sincerely ask for a certain thing that we want. An in my case the feeling of wellness was all that I am asking for. And that was granted today, as I woke up today I didn’t just feel well but I also feel the excitement inside of me (my right eye went back to the normal appearance). For today will be a great day for me becoming a new employee.
And I had my day coming back to where I was before and in becoming a newbie to a new world that I’ll be staying with starting today.
To see my previous blog check this sites:
http://jofhrey.multiply.com
or my friendster blogs with user acct.: jofparx28@yahoo.com
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